
When caring for an aging loved one, St. Louis families often find themselves weighing two primary options: hiring a private duty caregiver or choosing a residential senior living community. Each comes with its own advantages, depending on your family’s needs, lifestyle, and long-term goals. But how do you know which is the better fit?
If you’re searching for trusted, flexible care options in the St. Louis area, this guide will help you compare both paths—and understand why many families ultimately choose Mari de Villa.
What Is a Private Duty Caregiver?
A private duty caregiver is typically hired to provide non-medical, in-home assistance. This can include help with:
- Daily tasks like bathing, dressing, and meal preparation
- Medication reminders
- Companionship
- Light housekeeping
- Transportation to appointments
Families either hire caregivers through an agency or independently. While this option allows seniors to remain in their homes, it does come with limitations.
What Is Residential Senior Living?
Residential senior living, like what we offer at Mari de Villa, is a full-service environment where older adults live on-site and receive tailored care as their needs evolve. It includes:
- Skilled nursing and 24/7 medical supervision
- Daily support with personal tasks
- Chef-prepared meals and nutritional oversight
- Wellness programs, therapy, and social activities
- On-site rehabilitation and memory care
Unlike hiring a private caregiver, residential communities provide a comprehensive, consistent level of care in a social and secure setting.
Key Differences: What to Consider
Let’s break down the major differences between these two care paths:
Feature | Private Duty Caregiver | Residential Senior Living |
Location | Care at home | On-site at a licensed care community |
Medical Supervision | Varies; typically non-medical | 24/7 skilled nursing available |
Social Engagement | Limited to caregiver and occasional outings | Daily social activities, programs, and events |
Consistency of Care | Depends on staffing and scheduling | Consistent team of caregivers and nursing staff |
Emergency Support | Emergency services may require family contact | On-site medical support for emergencies |
Cost Transparency | Can vary based on hours and services | Predictable, often all-inclusive pricing model |
Which Is Right for Your Family?
Choosing between a private duty caregiver and residential senior living often comes down to these questions:
- Does your loved one need frequent or advanced care?
- Is your family struggling to coordinate or manage care at home?
- Would your loved one benefit from more social connection and structured activities?
- Are there concerns about safety or emergencies if care is provided at home?
If the answer is yes to any of the above, residential senior living may be the more sustainable and supportive solution. But how do you know which one to choose?
Why St. Louis Families Choose Mari de Villa

Mari de Villa offers a personalized, warm environment for seniors—whether they need occasional support or full-time nursing care. As a family-owned and operated community in Chesterfield, Missouri, we focus on:
- Customized care plans that evolve with your loved one’s needs
- Private suites and elegant common spaces
- All levels of care under one roof, from independent living to memory care
- No surprise bills with our all-inclusive pricing model
Learn more about our approach to care and how we’ve supported generations of St. Louis families.
Still Considering a Caregiver? Here’s What You Should Know
Private duty caregivers may be appropriate for individuals who:
- Require only a few hours of assistance per day
- Prefer to age in place and don’t yet need medical supervision
- Have consistent family support nearby
However, families often find that over time, care needs increase. When this happens, transitioning to a residential community becomes a more practical and emotionally supportive option.
According to AARP, families hiring private caregivers must plan for backup care, emergency plans, and rising costs as needs intensify.
Peace of Mind, All in One Place
The transition to senior living is a big step—but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. At Mari de Villa, we’ve helped countless families through this decision. With decades of compassionate service, we offer not only expert care, but also the reassurance that your loved one is safe, supported, and valued every day.
Ready to learn more? Schedule a private tour and speak with our care team today.